By Temi Otedola has officially changed her surname to Ajibade after her marriage to Nigerian singer Mr Eazi (Oluwatosin Ajibade). The actress and daughter of billionaire Femi Otedola made the change public on Instagram, where she updated her name to Temiloluwa Ajibade.
The couple got married in 2025 with ceremonies held in Dubai, Monaco, and Iceland. The weddings included a Yoruba traditional event in Dubai and a church service in Iceland, combining Nigerian culture with international settings. After the celebrations, Temi’s decision to adopt her husband’s surname quickly became the main topic of discussion online.
The question of whether women should take their husband’s surname or keep their maiden name is not new in Nigeria. In August, feminist commentator Rachelle (@omo_kosoko) argued that women can keep their names after marriage without it affecting their lives. She shared that she has been married for four years, relocated, had a child, and managed family life while retaining her surname. Her post drew different reactions, with some agreeing and others asking if women from wealthy families would make the same choice.
Temi’s decision has now brought the debate back into focus. At her wedding, her father, Femi Otedola, gave her advice that also attracted attention. He told her, “You have to succumb to your husband; he’s your boss. Temi, I wish you all the best in your future endeavours. You found a great guy. Very great guy. Blessed guy. He comes from a very decent family.” To some, his words reflected traditional beliefs, while others saw them as affectionate guidance.
On X and Instagram, opinions were divided. Some praised Temi for adopting her husband’s name, calling it a sign of respect and commitment. Others felt the uproar was unnecessary, saying marriage is about loyalty and values, not surnames. A few pointed out that changing names after marriage is not originally an African practice but a colonial influence, and that it should remain optional.
Comments also reflected class differences. Some social media users mocked women from less wealthy backgrounds who insist on keeping their maiden names. Others suggested Temi could have kept both names, Otedola and Ajibade, to honour both families. A number of people simply argued that it was her personal choice and should be respected.
Temi’s decision shows the challenges many Nigerian women face when balancing tradition, identity, and modern expectations. For some, a name change represents unity in marriage. For others, it raises questions about independence.
